girlfriend experience

The girlfriend experience

I started writing this a few days ago, because I was so disturbed by

what I saw. So I talked to a few friends about this topic...

surprisingly, guys seem to be more against it and girls seem to be

much more pragmatic about it. This started when I came across this C4

program: My Boyfriend The Sex Tourist.

The first part of the program showed guys going to these essentially

brothels in a South American country where they have a selection of

girls to pretend to be their girlfriends. That didn't bother me as

much as how many of these guys resemble guys I've met in the

community. The obligatory fat old guy, the ok-looking but creepy guy,

and an effeminate guy who is in denial. All old, all desperate, all

obviously come across as people who not only lack female companionship

but also male buddies.

Because of my past history dealing with these losers, my opinion on

the whole exploitive nature, how we are basically outsourcing sex. I

was quite tolerant of people in the past, not just out of obligation

but because I truly felt that everyone deserves a chance. Then I came

into contact with these losers en masse in the community. My opinion

gradually changed because I feel some of these people should not breed

for the same reason that they can't be part of the herd.

I think it's fun to socialize with people, connect emotionally and

physically. But the psychopathic nature of these guys, how they pick

out vulnerable groups of girls... from underage to recent arrivals

(i.e. FOBs) because then, it's a HUGE DHV for them to be either adults

(who can get them beer, saw Superbad?) or as "Americans" (who know

what's going on). Everyone can use more sex... but we have to draw the

line somewhere, from the legal age (or we end up with more Britney's

baby sis situation) to banning importation of sex workers. Seriously,

if guys can't pick up girls their own age (i.e. above legal age) or

girls who have similar background (similar awareness, intelligence,

education, profession), then what do we have?

Some girls told me it's a mutual exploitation thing. Like any business

transaction, is it mutual and fair? How do we decide if we don't have

some arbitrary rules? Do children need protection? What about mentally

handicapped adults? What about adults who are not as culturally aware?

Do these people need our protection? Or do we need to exert some

self-control and not exploit vulnerabilities in others?! Most pickup

methods are used for fun and games, because they can be used in social

situations. But the psychopathic nature of these guys, they use them

to exploit... I guess that's when I draw the line, from being a social

guy who gets girls to being a hustler.

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