gfe is for girlfriend experience

GFE - is for GirlFriend Experience

Any girl who reads sex worker blogs notices quickly the subtext of a

subculture...GFE stands for Girl Friend Experience. Stop and think

about that. Men pay for an experience that is supposed to, in theory,

mimic what so many women are engaged in every single day. Without

getting compensated emotionally. Without honesty. Most women enter

into these relationships with a ton of hope.

Smart women know hope is not a strategy. The girlfriend experience, as

described by Natalia, the much publicized former escort from New York

- is comprised of a gentle girl, with loving touches, dinner, drinks,

and of course, the promise of hearty sex and no drama. Natalia made

$5000 an hour, with that focus in mind. Every night, waiting for her

guest to open the door, she would repeat, "This is my boyfriend, who I

haven't seen in three weeks, and I miss so much." This, for a guy who

would spend thousands of dollars on her, and then leave her, perhaps

to never see her again. But everyone knew what they were getting, and

what they were giving. Everything was out in the open, and all

expectations were clear.

Imagine if every woman tapped into the "girlfriend experience" to keep

her man happy. No drama, with an open and honest look at what men

want. Men want simplicity. Lack of expectation, girlish flirtation,

great sex. It's simple, really. I've loved many men, and opened my

heart to men that have treated me very well, and loved me so much.

I've never lost touch with the value of a "girlfriend." I know men

wait, and pay, to be loved in the way a girlfriend does.

What's the value in being a "real girlfriend" with false hope if the