Dear J (Month 3, Monthly Newsletter)
Dear Jason,
Today marks 3 months, 90 days, or 2,160 hours that we have been pretty
much inseparable. In fact, I just made the appointment for next week
for us to be fused together at the head. I was thinking about getting
fused at the hip but that might interfere with some activities. ;-) I
was going to tell you about it but I thought that it would be a nice 3
month anniversary present. Just kidding, just kidding... (The
appointment is next month, actually.)
So...what to talk about? I started a few drafts of this letter and I
found myself unsatisfied NOT because I didn't have anything to write
about...but because I had page after page after page of the funny
stuff that has happened. The silly part is that with each incident I
typed out, I reread it and knew that no one else would get why you and
I were laughing like little girls during the alleged incidents. If we
have anywhere serious that we have to go (funeral, award ceremony,
hospital, sex ed class), we are SO FUCKED. :o) Some of the funny
things (in summary) are: the foreign cologne saleslady who told us to
look "on the line" for your cologne that they apparently did not
carry. We both looked at her, confused beyond belief, wondering if
there was a website out there called OnTheLine.com, until my smart
boyfriend put it together and said "oh, you mean ON-LINE!" The
laughter took me down with it and I had to physically turn around. The
Christmas party incident with the nurse I knew consoling me about
losing my parents by reassuring me that she knew EXACTLY how I felt
because she lost her dog a few years ago...and she still talks to him.
As soon as you turned away to talk to her boyfriend (a doctor that you
work with) and smirked, I held it together for about 5 seconds until I
just flat out laughed. In. Her. Face. *sigh* I am SO going to hell and
you are SO coming with me. :o)
This has to be my most favorite part about this month: all of the
laughing. Every day, at least a few times a day, you and I find
something so damn funny that we make sounds halfway between
retarded...and choking. We've even spit on each other (accidentally).
:-D I can ACTUALLY see those cool side muscles in my stomach and I am
convinced that it is TOTALLY from all of the laughing and other
activities that make me contract my stomach muscles.... Umm...yeah.
:o)
I didn't write too much about our trip to Florida but it was such a
huge step for us. We were together nonstop for almost 4 days and
didn't want to kill each other even once! :o) The last trip that I
took with my mother before my parents passed was actually to the same
city we went to, a few months before the fire. When we arrived, I
discovered that we were at the same exact resort...and I passed some
of the restaurants I ate at with her. I didn't think that this
bothered me but, later on that night, you woke up to find me crying
about how much I really missed my parents. In the time that we have
been together, you have never seen me cry about them...in fact, NO ONE
I have ever dated ever got to see that side of me because I was always
Miss Happy Girlfriend to whoever I dated. You didn't freak out and
reassured me that this was a normal part of life...not me being
unreasonable or dramatic, as I tend to worry. As sad as it may sound,
I love that I can express not only my happiness but my tears, as well.
My favorite part of the trip was sitting on the beach with you for a
couple of hours finishing this cool book called "All About Us." It's
basically a book with a bunch of relationship questions and you didn't
once imply that it was gay or silly...:o) We finished the entire book
on the beach and got thoroughly burnt in the sun...it really was the
shit. :-D Little did I know that spending all of that time together
would hint at what was to happen when we got home from our little
vacation...
The past month of our relationship has been a great adjustment period
for us. My sister kinda sorta kicked me out of my house/I finally came
to terms with the fact that we just can't be under the same roof. I
found my way back in (thank you, Mr. Locksmith) and discovered that I
no longer had a desire to be at home. It really was time for me to
move out. Amazingly true but I would not have found the courage to do
or even think something crazy like that. But, since you have shown up
in my life, there are certain truths that are evident and my self
esteem has slowly emerged from the swamp it was in. So, (brace
yourself, readers) we kinda sorta moved in together
(temporarily)...and it kinda sorta kicks ass. :-D The first few days
were quite difficult as I was homesick, missing Bobby like crazy, and
just plain upset by what life had forced upon me but you were such a
trooper through that. You did exactly what you have done throughout
our entire relationship--loving me unconditionally, and always giving
me unbiased advice about how to go about this next phase in my life,
without expressing any hatred or anger towards any outside parties.
(The cuddling and tiramisu from Astoria totally helps, too.) I've sat
here in front of this computer screen and thought about how I could
express in words how much you have impacted my life and I am just
utterly speechless. In a very, very, very, very scary way, you remind
me of my mother...and I can't thank you enough for everything... Okay,
I'm going to try to lay off the mushiness...:-D
My favorite part of the day is when you come home from work. I find
myself pacing around your apartment making sure everything is cleaned
up and perfect and then we hurl ourselves at each other like a pair of
sumo wrestlers and then go about our day. I really think that a good
make out session at least once a day is the key to happiness. :-D
A few days ago, when you left for work in the morning, the power in
your apartment flickered on and off about ten times. When you came
home, I told you about how that kinda freaks me out, mind you LAUGHING
YOUR ASS OFF (at me) regarding that particular conversation...:-P
Later on that evening, when we popped into Walgreens for miscellaneous
items, you did exactly what made me fall in love with you to begin
with, without even noticing it. You nonchalantly bought a
flashlight...just in case. The flashlight sits on top of your fridge
so I won't have to venture far to locate it when I've lost my way. :-D
Seems like a pretty good description of our relationship...
Thank you for being the light of my life and guiding me through the
dark times. I'd be lost without you. I love you so very much...
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* We're crazy and bought a condo together.
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